3 Unquestionable Signs He’s Worth It

Before you let him come closer, look for these.

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You’re in the beginning of the relationship. Or maybe it’s not even a relationship yet — it’s just casual dating.

Now is the time to be careful about what you’re getting yourself into. It’s difficult, because you’re probably smitten, but the more conscious you are about starting a relationship, the higher the chances of happily ever after.

So, what to look for at this stage?

He values love over significance.

Tony Robbins says all people are driven by six universal needs: the need for certainty, the need for uncertainty, the need for love, the need for significance, the need for growth and the need for contribution.

If you look at these closely, you’ll see they are really three groups of opposing needs. You can’t have both certainty and uncertainty; you can’t invest all your resources in growth if you also want to contribute.

And you can’t get love if you focus on getting significance. Significance, you see, is something you usually get from people who aren’t that close to you. Only people who don’t know you inside and out can be honestly impressed by you, or constantly surprised by your achievements, or take a good while to tell…